Single people in this digital age will find that Facebook is a where they do 30%-70% of the 'prospecting' for their dating lives.

While there are a number of good guides (one of which I created) to setting up your online profiles for maximium success there seems to be a lack of how to guides for actually doing the flirting in the most effective way. Please check out this very thorough guide I have put together for the best practices when it comes to flirting on Facebook; sending friend requests, flirting via messages, IMing, photo/wall commenting and arranging a meetup.

The Ultimate Guide to Facebook Flirting
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I'm going to share some of the methods and a few easy tricks for increasing your social proof and mystery quotient. Including how to remember people's names, how to turn cockiness into charisma, 4 easy tips that makes you seem much more genuine, how to talk about what you do, how to make a very memorable impression when meeting women, how to get invited and how to get on guest list.

If your objective is to be become a more interesting conversationalist tricks and techniques and will only get you so far. At some point you actually need to make the choice to become a more interesting person.

I'll be the 1st to admit that being an interesting person is just about as subjective and generalized description you can make about a person. It's like saying that someone is smart, we'll there's a lot of different forms of intelligence, remember Einstein didn't even know how many feet where in a mile.

In this article I'm going to quantify the concept of being an interesting person into five distinct aspects; knowledge acquisition, societal outliers, raconteurism, communication style, work and the entrepreneurial spirit.

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Knowing the owner of a venue drastically increases your social proof. In my experience most venue owners are easy to meet and establish a friendly rapport with, here's a very easy way to do it.

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